One is the Loneliest Number

As evidenced by yesterday's post, I've been thinking a lot recently about why I haven't been in a serious relationship in over seven years. In 1998, when the last one ended, I think I was going through a weird phase, and since then, I've kinda realised how incapable I was of maintaining a solid relationship. I was difficult and selfish and stubborn and not easy to live with. I know I've grown a lot since then, but I still see all those qualities in myself. I've never been one to stress about being alone because I know, when the time is right, the Lord will bring the right person into my life. I just wonder if there's something I need to change about myself before He's willing to act.